The Recent Trend of Loving, Supportive, and just Generally Nice Men

I’ve written several times about the wonderful show that is “Ted Lasso.” I’ve also written about the new trend of protective father figures, like Pedro Pascal likes to play. And I’ve written about how Steve “the hair” Harrington accepts–although he never sought it–the role of mentor/big brother/surrogate dad to the younger boys on “Stranger Things.”

There’s another show that has been bringing us some amazingly loving men. I quote from a recent post made on the “Schitt’s Creek Fans” page on Facebook, plus comments on the post that amplify the points made bt the OP.

There’s a remarkable aspect of Schitt’s Creek that often goes unspoken: the show consistently depicts men as recipients of deep affection, unwavering support, and emotional validation—without ever compromising their masculinity.

David and Patrick’s relationship is a standout example. Their bond is built on mutual respect, open communication, and emotional vulnerability. Patrick’s serenade of David with “Simply the Best” is a heartfelt moment that showcases love and tenderness directed towards a man, free from irony or mockery. Their journey together is filled with personal growth and consistent “green flags,” illustrating a healthy, supportive partnership.

Similarly, Johnny Rose is portrayed as a man who receives steadfast support from his wife. She never belittles him to others and always listens when he’s stressed—sometimes in her unique way, but always within the framework of their mutual understanding. Their relationship exemplifies a mature, respectful partnership where the man is valued and uplifted, without Moira being seen any less than equal.

Alexis’s character arc also highlights this theme. Her decision to approach Ted and confess her love, without any assurance of his response, subverts traditional gender roles. This moment, typically reserved for male characters, underscores her significant personal growth and challenges conventional romantic tropes.

As a man watching Schitt’s Creek, I find its portrayal of male affection and support beautifully authentic. The series presents numerous examples of men receiving love without compromising their masculinity. It’s a rare and commendable depiction that offers a blueprint for non-toxic male support on television.

Comments on the page:

Also, the time Johnny stood up for Roland when their snobby friends came to town.

It was/is so refreshing to not have the dumb incompetent husband and nagging wife trope. They showcased loving support despite shortcomings and sometimes outlandish behavior.

Johnny Rose also demonstrates his natural love and affection for his gay son, without a hint of any acceptance issues or concerns. This love is expressed with confidence in his own “maleness.” Notice I did not say masculinity.

It’s also one of the very few shows to have gay characters where that isn’t a defining characteristic for them. They are wholly rounded characters that exist outside of their sexual identities.

One thing that I love most about the show is how warm and affectionate Johnny’s and Moira’s relationship is. They are never demeaning to each other. They are never disrespectful to each other.

The best thing about Schitt’s Creek is that each person is shown with strengths and faults no matter their gender, sexuality, education, color, class, etc. Every character is equal parts annoying and endearing with unique quirks and surprises!! So wonderful!

As I always say, the creatives are always ahead of the curve of society. It bodes well for us, as we deal with the revelations about the abuses perpetrated by the men of the old guard, that popular culture is giving us more and more examples of how men much better men can be.